a crazy day at semillas...you mean everyday?

so yesterday we had a bleeder---and boy was it a bleeder....

typical start to semillas---around 30 kids, hot as hell, buenas tardes niños, etc., usual start up---things were going pretty well for the first hour, lots of noise, lots of kids, but all within the normal of chaos. during recreo i was sitting talking with one of the new girls who was there for the first time, all very peaceful and quiet, trying to help her with her english hw when Luis (remember el poo poo) runs up to me screaming and crying: "Abrahan se cayo!! golpeo su cabeza Abrahan se cayo!! (he fell, he hit his head!)" complete panic in his face...so i get up and start running with him over to the playground area where Abrahan is, and when i get there i literally almost threw up. kind of like that feeling when you get the wind knocked out of you. there was little abrahan, 4 years old, sitting COVERED in blood. like when i tell you his entire face, his entire shirt, arms, everything, covered in blood. and he´s sitting there screaming bloody murder. at that moment i almost went into panic mode and started freaking out, BUT i knew i had to stay calm for his sake and put on the nurse face. the fact that he was conscious and breathing and screaming was a good thing, so i just scooped him up and started running--to where? i really had no idea, so i headed to one of the classrooms-- luckily the kid only weighs about twenty pounds.

*Later Dan, Karla and I joked about their perceptions of what they thought i looked like throughout this drama: Karla: "you looked like you were part of a scene in Hotel Rwanda" ---Dan: "you looked like David Hasselhoff in Baywatch"---yeah, not really sure what else to say about that ha. i think i´d rather portray Don Cheadle any day than David Hasselhoff haha

so of course by now this scene has attracted pretty much every other kid at semillas so along with screaming abrahan i´ve got about 20 other kids asking me ¿que paso, que paso? luckily we had a bunch of ayudantes helping us out and they shooed them out of the room. after laying abrahan down and looking for the source of the blood we realized that it wasn´t really as bad as it looked, yeah it was a gash, but definitely not going to kill him. it was just the enormous amount of blood that scared everyone, as it would anywhere.

in the states he probably would´ve gotten a staple or two, definitely at least a trip to the ED, but here, no hay. so once he was all cleaned up, i.e. basically stripped down to just his shorts, he calmed a little, but then when he looked at his little scooby doo t-shirt covered in blood and started screaming again. so now we´re all like it´s okay, its just a t-shirt, and he´s saying, no, no, de pega, de pega---meaning, "i´m gonna get hit, if i come home with this dirty bloody shirt". that´s when i pretty much lost it. here´s this poor kid, so traumatized by the blood, and then by the cut, and now all he can worry about is when he goes home with his bloody t-shirt he´s going to get hit. oh! and how can i forget, when his sister saw him, Carmen, who´s 7, she had a panic attack, again not because he fell and got hurt, but because she was gonna get beat for not taking care of him. yeah she´s 7.....the whole absurdity of the situation was just too extreme for me. i just got so angry and upset. so of course what did i do---i take abrahans clothes, run home, and scrub the shitt out of them, getting every bit of blood and dirt out so that these kids won´t get hit for having ruined them. i was practically in tears, but so determined to "fix" this situation.

when i got back to semillas i revealed the newly cleaned shirt and again tried to calm Carmen and Abrahan down, also explaining to them that we would go to their house after semillas and talk to their parents. they were still worried, but we got through the rest of the afternoon. it was just such a crazy day i can´t even explain. luckily things at their house went down well and as far as we know, no one got hit after the fact. it´s hard too because we know kids sometimes exaggerate and say "my mom´s gonna beat me if she finds out"-- i´m pretty sure we´ve all at some point made this comment, but here, when kids say it, it´s usually whats happening in the house. parent´s use violence as discipline---kids get beat when they do something wrong---that´s why there´s so much violence at semillas...whenever something goes wrong with whatever a kid is doing, their first instinct is to hit, punch, or kick the kid that offended them. it´s just so frustrating. as much as we try to "use our words" or "talk it out", there is no reinforcement of this back in the casa. so yeah...you can imagine how shot my nerves were by the end of the day :-)

on a happier note---yesterday was my first day driving in Duran! and i did really well! Megan took me out around the neighborhood and i only stalled like 3 times. very successful if i do say so---not only was i driving standard, but a huge ass truck!(and for all of you who´ve seen george, you know i´m a foreigner when it comes to suvs/trucks)

another happy note, mondays are mail days! probably my favorite day of the week (well when i get mail anyway) and yesterday i got not 1 but 3 packages!!! all from my mom of course, but they were filled with lots of sweets and the most recent People mag which made me so happy! i felt like i was back in voute 509 eating a granola bar reading about the latest john and kate drama---a very peaceful evening at least! i´ve also received so many great letters since i´ve been here which is just so awesome---having something tangible to keep reading, especially after a tough day really makes so much of a difference---i can´t thank you all enough for those! especially Jen, Kaki, Nicole, Robbie, Amanda, and in particular my grandma who sends me a letter a week! how special do i feel!

so that about sums up the latest here in ecua-world....i´ve still been hanging out with lupe regularly, eating many breakfasts and lunches with her throughout the weeks, with lots of other snacks throughout the day! everytime i walk by her house i always feeling like she´s handing me something, an orange, or a caramelo, or a chicken leg! she shouts, "lupita, venga!" and i know she´s got something to share with me ha, it´s both a great thing and a dangerous thing! and no one takes no for an answer here, if they offer, you take. punto.

well i´ve gotta hit the road, dinner will be ready soon, and i don´t wanna be late! hope all is well in the US----keep me posted on the latest news! i still miss you all everyday and hope that you´re all smiling and laughing a ton!

lots of love being sent your way, abrazos fuerte y muchos besitos,
lupita